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How to Make a Referral to a counselor at the Counseling and Health Center
First share your concern, let the person know that you are concerned for them and why. Be as specific as possible
about your concerns. For example you might say something like, "I often hear you mention your worries about X," or
"I can tell from our recent conversations that this is worrying you and that you need to talk about it," or "When
you mention that you are thinking of suicide, that concerns me and I know it concerns you too.").
Avoid labeling the person or their behavior (e.g., don't say "I think you're depressed," or "This isn't normal,"
or "You need therapy.").
Let the person know what you believe they might gain
from meeting with a counselor (e.g., "I think you will find
it helpful to discuss all this with someone impartial, someone who can help you sort out your thoughts and feelings,"
or "This is just the thing to consult with a counselor about -- a counselor will know more about this than I do).
Reassure the person that making a referral isn't a
rejection (e.g., you might say "Even though you will be talking
with your counselor about X, I want us to keep in touch about how things are going for you,").
Suggest the person call or stop in at the Counseling
and Health Center and make an appointment. You can also suggest
that they visit this web site if they would like more information about Counseling Services.
If you are wondering whether or how to bring the issue
of a referral up, feel free to call and consult with a counselor about it. Remember that any services the individual does receive from the Counseling and Health Center
are confidential., the counselor will not be able to provide you with any information about the services received by
someone who you have referred without that personŐs written permission.
Adapted from How to Make a Referral to a Counselor, American University
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