Chari Nordgaard paves her own way
GREEN BAY - When Chari Nordgaard decided to attend the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay as a member of the Phoenix women's basketball program in 1995, she knew she would have to play in the shadow of her big brother Jeff.
At the time, Jeff was a rising star and had led his team to an NCAA tournament berth. He would continue on to All-America status, leading the Phoenix to three post-season berths, etching himself into the UW-Green Bay record book and being drafted by the Milwaukee Bucks of the National Basketball Association.
To Chari, Jeff's shadow loomed large, but like their childhood after-dusk games of kick-the-can, the shadows would offer excitement and a challenge, and maybe, even at times, a hiding place.
In her first few weeks as a college freshman in fall of 1995, Chari's dreams didn't take hold as she hoped. No longer the big fish in a small pond, she found her confidence waning with every lonely walk across campus and every difficult wind sprint in practice. The rumor was she was going to quit school.
"I wanted to leave," said Chari. "I was homesick, and the demands were more difficult than I had anticipated. But I had to give it a chance. I told my parents I would stick it out for a year, but mostly, I did it for myself, because I didn't want to be left saying 'what if.'"
Thank goodness. For Chari and for UW-Green Bay.
Nordgaard will complete her senior year of eligibility this spring as the top scorer in Phoenix women's basketball history. She was recently named first-team Academic All-American -- one of only five Division I players in the country to earn the prestigious award. Like Jeff, she was also named Associated Press Honorable Mention All-America AND she outscored her brother, surpassing his 1,911 career points in the Midwestern Collegiate Conference Tournament.
"Just a friendly family rivalry," says Chari of the scoring battle. "He told me he'd give me a hundred bucks if I beat him. He wanted me to get it too, because he knew the record would depend on me playing well, and the team winning and advancing in post-season play."
On the court she is smart, steady, physical, aggressive and unemotional. Off the court she is bright, articulate, mature, polite and outspoken on subjects that matter to her. She carries a 3.87 grade point average in a reputably difficult major, public administration. Those who know her best say she is extremely sensitive, a perfectionist and an introvert. She is both respected and envied by opponents, and admired by teammates. Her family is just plain proud.
"I've been told that my grandmother, who isn't well enough to make it to the games anymore, has sat and watched college women's games on TV focusing on a tall, blonde player and pretending it is me," said Chari.
Chari's father John and mother Eleanor have made the eight-hour drive from Dawson, Minnesota, a small town near the Dakota border, to Green Bay maybe a dozen times a year for the past seven years. Chari's sister and best friend Kami, who plays volleyball at the University of South Carolina, and sister Julie, a UW-Green Bay alumnae, keep in contact weekly via phone and e-mail.
Jeff, who played professionally in Italy, tells of how he would sit at his laptop computer until 5 a.m., surfing U.S. sports sites until he was able to locate the latest Phoenix score. "I couldn't sleep until I knew," he said. "It's been exciting for me. I feel the anguish with every bad game and am totally excited when the team does well. My parents and grandparents feel the same way."
The expectations and the comparisons come fast and furious for Chari and Jeff. But the younger Nordgaard has taken it in stride.
"Jeff has been my role model," said Chari. "Even in high school he accomplished what I wanted to accomplish. I wanted his number (33) in high school, and I took it in college. He opened up possibilities for me. Score 1,000 points. Play Division I basketball. Go to the NCAA Tournament. I wanted to do it too. He's been a major influence."
Jeff agreed that the pressure has been difficult, but it may have helped Chari garner the success that she has.
"Over the years it put some pressure on her to live up to the things I accomplished, but it made her become a better player. She has always wanted to be a winner. But she is a very sensitive person, and off-the court, having to live up to those standards was kind of tough."
Chari credits her family, a strong supporting cast of teammates and her boyfriend, former Phoenix men's basketball player, Wayne Walker whom she's been dating since her sophomore year, for additional support.
"This is the tightest team I have ever been a part of," said Nordgaard. "We are so cohesive and we have so much fun together. There isn't a single person that doesn't get along with someone else on the team."
Chari's roommate, senior point guard Becky Knutson, gets credit for being Chari's best friend on the team, but Walker has been Nordgaard's rock.
"Wayne, he's my best friend," Nordgaard said. "We spend every minute together. One thing is that we are both so similar. We're both so competitive and he understands what I am going through. "We've been dating since February of my sophomore year. He graduated in December but said he wanted to be around for my senior year, and that's really special. He knows how important this is for me. He's been to every game when maybe my friends or family couldn't. I always knew I had someone special waiting for me after games."
With or without her supporting cast, Nordgaard has paved her own way, and her future is about as bright as her recent past. The first thing she'll do is watch the Women's National Basketball Association draft show on April 27th, hoping for the admittedly long-shot that her name will be called to play in the United States' only professional league this summer.
If she doesn't get drafted, she'll still have an opportunity to try out for a final roster spot -- maybe with the league's new expansion team, the Minnesota Lynx. If not, she'll try her luck in Europe, where women's professional teams enjoy tremendous support and a much longer history than the WNBA.
"Jeff's agent told Jeff that he's the second best Nordgaard and he wants to sign the best," said Chari. "He's expressed that to Jeff, not to me. I'm not sure I'm good enough but I've got to give it a try."
If a professional basketball career falls through, there's the possibility of playing one year for the Phoenix volleyball team and finishing her degree in fall in preparation for graduate work and a possible law degree.
"Whatever happens, I feel like I'm prepared for it," Chari said. "It is hard to imagine life without basketball. I have always been able to explain myself through the game. It has been my identity. But basketball has modeled what I want to do in my life, which is to have the confidence to succeed in whatever I set out to do.
"I used to think I wanted to be a high school athletic director, because it would suit my strengths, but now I want to go on to graduate school. It seems like I have so many different options now. Regardless, I think I'm prepared. Basketball has given me so much. There might be opportunities in the WNBA or overseas, but whenever that is over, I think basketball has prepared me for the challenges in the workforce. Going though trying times, getting along with people, and the transition from being unsuccessful to successful, like earlier this season, I think those things teach you what is necessary wherever you end up."
"When I came here, I didn't want to be a small fish in a big sea, I wanted to be extraordinary. Once basketball is over, I want an opportunity to give back.
"I can remember almost to the minute when I knew this was the place for me. I was driving back to Green Bay from Dawson. It was January of my freshman year, and I was thinking, 'I really love this place now. What would have happened if I had left?'"
There are many in Green Bay who are glad they never had to consider the possibility.
(99-31 / 11 Mar. 1999 / SB)